Be glad. Be good. Be brave.
part of ALSTE 2012. curently studying in Psychology Unpad (2012). family oriented. flowers. music. books. cold-hearted.
Kata Penting malam ini:


1. Sedikit sekali yang lebih menyedihkan daripada berusaha setia kepada orang yang tidak mampu setia.

2. Jika untuk setia itu sulit bagimu, apakah jika engkau dikhianati - juga mudah bagimu?

3. Katakanlah: Tetap mempertahankanmu yang tak setia hari ini adalah pengkhianatanku atas diriku sendiri di masa depan.

4. Kekasih yang baik adalah yang sangat berkualitas tapi tidak sombong, penuh hormat dan sangat setia kepadamu.

5. Setia itu menyakitkan, jika engkau memaksa dirimu untuk setia kepada penipu yang menelantarkanmu.

6. Jika dia tetap setia kepadamu walau apa pun, itu berarti Tuhan menghadiahimu dengan cinta yang tak ternilai.

Semoga Anda yang masih sendiri, segera disandingkan dalam pernikahan yang penuh cinta, setia dan sejahtera.

Mario Teguh - Loving you all as always (via marioteguh)
Normality is a paved road: It’s comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow on it.
Vincent van Gogh (via psych-facts)
Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.
Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones (via psych-facts)


Violent Relationships with Dr. Leelia Franck

Don’t forget that women of color and trans women (and especially trans women of color) receive even higher sentences for hurting/killing in self-defense against abusive partners than cis and/or white women.